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I am writing about Tresa’s comment concerning the practice of introducing oneself with pronouns, and whether this is “going overboard” because there may be no transgender person in the room.

I live in Ohio and have a younger transgender relative. I have been active in promoting a support group and other services for transgender youth, so I know hundreds of them. I can tell you that what I hear from transgender people is that beginning a meeting with introductions that include pronouns is in fact relevant. It signals that the people present are expected to make that meeting a trans-friendly space, and that at least most are willing to do so.

I have never heard from someone who is trying to decide which pronouns to use that it’s hard to be part of a meeting where pronouns are included in introductions. What I hear is that the in general they are grateful for the chance to try out using different pronouns.

I personally don’t particularly like the awkwardness of introducing myself with pronouns. However, I consider it a small discomfort compared to the larger goal of helping a minority group become more fully integrated into our larger society.

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